Being Ignored

Do you ever notice how the second a guy stops paying attention to woman he is suddenly desirable? How the unavailable guy is more interesting? I always wonder why women get so caught up in needing and wanting the attention.

Now don't get me wrong. Mama LOOOOOVES attention. I enjoy the stares, the gawks, the undressing me with their eyes. I can't get enough of it.

BUT... I'm a predator. If a man doesn't pay me enough attention, whether it's one night at a bar or after several dates, he might as well not exist. If it's because he is shy and awkward, that sucks for him. If it is because he is hoping it will give him an edge, then he is going to attract needy women.

I'm pretty simple. Give me attention if you want to date me. Call me, email me, communicate. Because if you don't communicate OR you don't respond to my attempts (and trust me I don't try that hard), then you're on the way out.

I say this because RedSox has been paying less attention lately, not ridiculously so, but I have noticed fewer emails and a lack of the daily phone call. There could be a number of reasons (stress, surgery clerkship, business sales) from both of our ends.

BUT... I am a predator. I feel like I've already got a lot on my plate, so why should I even be caring about this?

Maybe I care because RedSox is not just one night at a bar or just a few dates. Maybe I'm not such a predator after all.