the Author writes again

After a date last night that ended in a quick goodbye kiss, I headed to the bar in my building for more drinks. My night wasn't over just cos my date was sick and had to drive 30 minutes home.

I sat at the bar and texted a whole bunch of new neighbor friends to join me, but I also included Author as I knew he was sick in bed and wanted to stick it to him since I haven't seen nor heard from him in 2 months.

He replied and actually joined me for a drink. Poor thing was coughing, but I didn't let him get away with a sick excuse. I wanted to know where he was mentally and physically over the past 2 months.... actually one month as I knew December was his product launch month.

So what happened in January?

For the entire month he isolated himself because he was in negotiations to sell his company. It was a huge stressor (and probably was led to him becoming sick). I understood that, but to not to even get a text was saddening.

He claims he texted me last week with a big apology and hoping to hang out. When he didn't hear from me by the next day, he assumed I was upset with him and done.

I didn't get this alleged text. He thinks his reception in the mountains might be the culprit. I think I really don't care as he looked so cute and I just wanted to fuck him.

oops... TMI

But that's exactly what happened last night. :)

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Cougar Cub

I spent most of my 20s dating men in their 30s and 40s. I thought it was the intelligent thing to do as they seemed more put together, more mature, more experienced... and well... they hit on me more than guys in their 20s.

Until Now.

Maybe it's because there are more men in their 20s at bars than any other decade, but I am definitely getting more attention from the younger guys. I think I blatantly look my age, 28, so I'm not sure what is going on.

What I can tell you is that I LOVE IT.

I recently started seeing Arena. He's a couple years younger than I am and a professional arena football player despite the demise of the league. He's got a great body but isn't too beefy. He's a wide receiver (my favorite! along with quarterbacks).

Arena invited me over yesterday for an afternoon of "cuddling." Yeah right... like I can cuddle. Well we started out that way and naturally progressed to more fun activities.

O... O... O...

get it?

Arena has an unbelievable amount of energy and stamina. I don't think I've ever had a guy go that long and multiple times. What was I thinking avoiding men in their 20s?

No more...

I may not be at the age to have the official title of cougar, but I can only get older ;)

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OleMiss Colorado recap

OleMiss was crazy busy with work the entire time he was in Colorado. It made for very late nights if we got together. In the week he was here, I got to see him 3 times. I'd say that's pretty good considering I was also going out on dates with other men.

Where do I find this time? I'll never know.

On our last night together, we were having drinks at the bar across the street and one of my neighbors comes in. Now this is my 60 year old neighbor whom I love. He is pretty much the mayor of my building.

He sits with us for food and drinks and the first thing he says is "Roxy! I always see you with a different guy!"

I'm not about to hide it ;)

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Bringing the South to Denver

OleMiss arrived yesterday and pretty much got right down to business. We agreed to meet for drinks after work. I was on call but got out with plenty of time and we met at the bar in my building.

He looked great, much healthier. He complimented me as well and the drinking began.

I asked him how things were going with Bethie. He told me that he's trying to figure out how to break up with her. She is way too clingy on their 3rd go-around and he is not in love with her anymore.

That's all I wanted to hear.

After several glasses of wine and a couple of beers, we end up back at his hotel. Naturally we hit the bed and had sex.

Sadly with all the alcohol, I don't remember much of it this morning... but OleMiss is here for the rest of the week so I'm sure I'll be back in his hotel room more often than not.

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New Year... same me

In moving to Colorado, I thought I would use my free time to reflect on myself and work on self-improvement. Reality check... I have very little free time. And what little I have, I want to use to have fun.

In thinking about New Years resolutions, I thought I might stop using craigslist for dating. But then I realized I'd have to go out more often to meet men for dates and I just don't have the time to do that.

And that would leave all of you with very little to read. Perish the thought!

A few tidbits of what has been going on with men in my life:

MetroSteve returned to Denver. He didn't tell me. I just bumped into him on the elevator in our building. It was very awkward from his end, and I'm fairly certain the less-attractive-than-me chick with him was the reason. I don't have time for his insecurity. I wished him a happy new year and skipped off the elevator in my stilettos.

OleMiss is coming to Denver for business tomorrow. I may have mentioned a few months ago that he called me in the middle of the night and did this whole "what if we were in the same city" bit... and only told me he got back together with his ex 2 months after they were together. Well they're on the rocks again (no surprise) and he and I will be in the same city...

ScottAvs is a man I may never have mentioned. We went out a couple times. He loves hockey and I love hockey players... I mean I love hockey too. We recently reconnected and he's falling hard for me. I wish I was more into him.

Author was so busy the entire month of december with some product launch that I'm fairly certain we're done.

I went on facebook and saw RedSox's new years photos from the Bahamas. I actually felt jealous when I saw him with other girls.

AccountExec gets back from visiting family for the holidays this week. I'm hoping his new year's resolution is to get over his ex and get a hard on that lasts long enough for us to have sex.

There are some other boys in the works, but none too exciting as of yet. We'll see where 2010 goes...

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