Oh the marine...God Bless America

So one of my neighbors in our groups of friends is the Marine. He's 24, very handsome, very intelligent. My friend... just friend... yeah right.

He broke up with girlfriend a couple of months ago and we all continued to hang out as friends... just friends.

Saturday night I needed a drink. All of our neighbors were out of town, so I called Marine to join me because we're friends... just friends.

Marine and I drink... we keep drinking... the bartender decides to try out some drinks on us... we're drunk.

And we do what we always do.

We go back to his apartment, play Wii and watch cash cab.

This time he decided to lie on top of me.

Then he decided to kiss me.

Then we were naked in his bedroom.

All he can say is "Why didn't this happen before?"

And I replied "because you had a girlfriend."

And then I passed out, woke up naked, forgot where I was, quickly realized what happened... then got up and went about my day.

Because this is what I do.

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Happy Valentine's Day!

I hope you all had a wonderful valentine's day. I know the day is not necessarily about flowers, chocolates and gifts. But let's be freakin honest... I LOVE THEM!

I tend not to put any pressure of the guy(s) I'm dating as I have very little faith in men to be at all romantic. So it's always a happy surprise when they do something.

Arena sent me a text... cute... I haven't seen him since he dropped the baby bomb.

ScottyAvs apologized (I can't believe it either) for not coming up with any plans, but he last-minute took me to a nice dinner and bought flowers.

What a cutie!

I rode him extra hard for that. ;)

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Arena's surprise

I invited Arena to come out for a happy hour last night. We drank quite a bit and enjoyed hanging out with my neighbors. While out, he told me he had to tell me something.

I always hate that ominous vibe.

We kept drinking and naturally I was pretty drunk when we finally got back to my place, had sex and then started talking. Come on... I gotta get some before bad news kills the mood ok!

Arena had told me a few weeks ago that his job was going to end in a couple of months. He told me he might do some traveling.

What he broke to me last night is that he'll have to head back to Iowa because his ex-girlfriend is due to have a baby girl around that time.

It gets better.

They had actually been TRYING to have a baby together. She got pregnant and told him that she had cheated. Somebody call Maury. Arena is not sure if the baby is his.

I am totally ok with this for 2 reasons.

1. Arena and I were not going to last
2. His problem... not mine

I'm not sure if he wants support or what, but I'm just not that interested in his baby mama drama. Been there, done that only a few months ago.

I am interested in continuing to see him... after all... the sex is fantastic!

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