Official

A few nights ago after going out NotMexican sends me this series of texts:

I have to tell you. I tried hard not to let it happen because I figure if it does then it's real. I am freaking crazy about you. And I need to figure out how to get you to stay and not move back to Boston.

I see good things with you. Great things.

We need to talk.

I have never really had the talk with any guy I've dated. Not even with RedSox whom I dated for THREE years.

I relied on it actually. It allowed me to do whatever I wanted, whenever I wanted because then I wouldn't be a cheater.

NotMexican and I went out the night after the texts and talked very little actually. We became official and promised we would enjoy what time we have left.

So that's what we're doing... as boyfriend and girlfriend.

And now it's time to meet all of his friends...

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Bankruptcy

I was out with NotMexican last week and we were randomly watching The Apprentice. He told me that Donald Trump has filed for bankruptcy twice in his lifetime. I was rather surprised as he's never been anything other than a billionaire to me.

The next time NotMexican and I were together, we were lying in bed and talking. He told me that he was testing me when he told me about Donald Trump.

ok????

I didn't quite get it until he revealed that he was filing for bankruptcy himself. I didn't know what to say because it just didn't make sense. He pays for everything when we go out. He seemed comfortable and set. I have no idea what filing for it means.

He also told me that while he is waiting for his tenants to move out of his house, he is living with his parents which is why he didn't want me coming over.

If this was any other guy, I think I would be more bothered. But I can also understand this is a tough time and it's embarrassing.

And I don't care. I think I love him.

I can't believe I just said that.

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Sometimes I hate being a girl

So things are going really well with NotMexican... but they could be going better.

And that statement right there is why I hate being a girl.

I want to see him all the time. I want to talk to him all the time. I get super giddy when my text message beep goes off and it's him.

He also says the right things... but I want more.

The other day we were texting and he told me I'm on his mind often, asking if that was a good thing.

Since I'm a bit of a snob, I replied that I should be on his mind all the time.

After a lot of banter back and forth that lead to medical explanations, he finally cut to the chase and said he wanted to know if he was on my mind.

Well yes... of course.

So you see we have great text conversations. We see each other appropriately. We have great sex every time...

But I'm a freakin girl and I want more.

I want all the time.

Man I hate relationships.

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Narrowing down to one?

I don't why i'm all of a sudden growing up, but lately I've been thinking about narrowing my dating ways to that of a mature person... and trying to date only one man.

It may suck for this blog, but knowing me... it won't last.

I've been dating this new guy NotMexican pretty consistently now. I know it's only been a few weeks, but I like him a lot.

He pushes my buttons in all the right ways. He's bluntly honest. He called me a snob and said he liked it. He's started learning my ways and adjusting his habits alongside mine.

And the sex... oooo the sex... very enjoyable indeed :)

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Whack a Mole

Why is it that men from the past always pop up out of the ground at the same time?

On Friday, my building had a small wine-tasting and a potential sugar daddy from the past who happens to own the store hosting the tasting was there. I sadly did not get to enjoy the tasting as I was studying (pat on back).

On my way out the door later in the evening to enjoy a drink with my new guy NotMexican, my concierge stopped me. Apparently the sugar daddy asked him to tell me to call. He lost his phone and thus lost my number. It's kinda funny since he lost his phone the day before we were supposed to hang out. I was convinced he was just not that into me.

Now months later, he's back in the picture. If he turns into something, I'll be sure to let you know.

But of course he's not the only to pop back into the picture. Fargo has returned. We briefly dated in the fall, but I just couldn't stand his accent. He texted me saturday night saying he missed me. If he could shut up the whole time, maybe we could try again.

Then of course the Author. He is so in and out all the time, I just don't bother anymore. Author texted me today asking to hang out. He is so weird. We'll text and try to make plans and then he'll fall off the face of the earth for a bit. I of course keep going with my other men, so it doesn't bother me, but I'm kinda at the point where I'm just not sure I'm interested anymore.

All these guys popping back up... and I'm still seeing ScottyAvs and now NotMexican.

This should be very interesting...

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