Arena's surprise

I invited Arena to come out for a happy hour last night. We drank quite a bit and enjoyed hanging out with my neighbors. While out, he told me he had to tell me something.

I always hate that ominous vibe.

We kept drinking and naturally I was pretty drunk when we finally got back to my place, had sex and then started talking. Come on... I gotta get some before bad news kills the mood ok!

Arena had told me a few weeks ago that his job was going to end in a couple of months. He told me he might do some traveling.

What he broke to me last night is that he'll have to head back to Iowa because his ex-girlfriend is due to have a baby girl around that time.

It gets better.

They had actually been TRYING to have a baby together. She got pregnant and told him that she had cheated. Somebody call Maury. Arena is not sure if the baby is his.

I am totally ok with this for 2 reasons.

1. Arena and I were not going to last
2. His problem... not mine

I'm not sure if he wants support or what, but I'm just not that interested in his baby mama drama. Been there, done that only a few months ago.

I am interested in continuing to see him... after all... the sex is fantastic!

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Cougar Cub

I spent most of my 20s dating men in their 30s and 40s. I thought it was the intelligent thing to do as they seemed more put together, more mature, more experienced... and well... they hit on me more than guys in their 20s.

Until Now.

Maybe it's because there are more men in their 20s at bars than any other decade, but I am definitely getting more attention from the younger guys. I think I blatantly look my age, 28, so I'm not sure what is going on.

What I can tell you is that I LOVE IT.

I recently started seeing Arena. He's a couple years younger than I am and a professional arena football player despite the demise of the league. He's got a great body but isn't too beefy. He's a wide receiver (my favorite! along with quarterbacks).

Arena invited me over yesterday for an afternoon of "cuddling." Yeah right... like I can cuddle. Well we started out that way and naturally progressed to more fun activities.

O... O... O...

get it?

Arena has an unbelievable amount of energy and stamina. I don't think I've ever had a guy go that long and multiple times. What was I thinking avoiding men in their 20s?

No more...

I may not be at the age to have the official title of cougar, but I can only get older ;)

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