I am a Gemini... a classic, straight-up, word for word in the horoscope Gemini. For the most part I love it, but there are always times when the twins just need to shut the f*ck up.
As you all know I have been extremely upset about my roomate situation. I was hurt and angry. I felt abandoned. I didn't understand. What went wrong?
I kept going from one extreme to the next. It's her fault. It's my fault. No way, it's her fault. Ultimately I acted on one extreme. The extreme being it's her fault. I wanted her out by the end of the day on Saturday. GONE.
She paid for September out of selfish reasons. The evil twin was 100% sure.
I hashed it out with Roomate this evening, and she is convinced she paid for September to give me time to find a roomate and reduce my stress.
Oops... says the good twin.
In the heat of my anger, the evil twin cut her a $750 check to make sure she is out by Saturday. In the despair of the aftermath, the good twin wanted to apologize.
I listened to both arguments and I came to the conclusion that what's done is done. She is moving out. I am being childish.
I apologized and told her that she could take her time.
The evil twin called me a pussy... and the evil twin is correct.
"I may be a pussy, but I am not a complete idiot", says the good twin.
I apologized AND I cancelled the check.
Both twins are happy again.
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