The following is post a friend of mine wanted to post on his blog, but due to the vicious attitude of fellow bloggers, he felt it better to get this rant of his chest elsewhere. I have adjusted the post a bit to be fair to all since I don't know the woman of whom he speaks.
Someone should alert Kelly of The Unbearable Heaviness of BEING BLOG to the fact that exposing someone's HIV status along with his name and the name of his long-term girlfriend is ILLEGAL. I don't know why I read her blog. It's all fun and games until someone loses his/her mind (as my brother says).
Kelly has lost her mind.
The short story is that some dude she was screwing for 2 years, who was never her boyfriend AND told her to her face that he wasn't monogamous, turned out to have a long-term girlfriend. Outraged that this guy, aka her long-term-f*ck-buddy-and-NOTHING-more, didn't wish to promise his undying love to a mental patient, she did some online sleuthing. She found the girlfriend's information, contacted her... and drama ensued.
The girlfriend, I think, told Kelly that the boyfriend is HIV positive. I say "I think" because there are so many holes in Kelly's story that it resembles swiss cheese. Who knows what is true?
Kelly didn't make the guy wear a condom every time* so I know she's writing this post after the post about her deadly secret. But don't ask her to reveal it!!!! Duh...
In a state of rage one night, she writes a blog post about the guy and his girlfriend, calls them both by their REAL FULL NAMES and states he is HIV positive.
Since she won't shut the f*ck up about it, ANOTHER f*cked-up bully blogger looking for a cat fight writes about the story on her blog and repeats the names along with Kelly's name. Whatever.
Kelly feels violated. She is a demented hypocrite who needs to get a life and seek treatment before she's homeless and rocking back and forth talking to her hands. There should be a law against bloggers who use their blogs as buly pulpits. Arrest them! Or take away their computers or something. This is out of hand.
*if the whole damn story is true and he is in fact positive AND didn't tell her, then he sucks and should be put in jail alongside her. She says he falsified a test and lied about being positive. I seriously can't keep all the details straight.