See Ya Later Sam

"He is the first guy I ever said 'I love you' to just because I loved the sex"- Sam

About 3.5 years ago, Torch and I were browsing craigslist looking for more girls to add to our group of friends. We were still relatively fresh out of college, single and looking to party.

One day we both ran across the same ad. It said something along the lines of "I'm 25, but I still love to party like I'm 18." Torch and I were in the same boat, so we agreed to shoot this chick an email and check her out.

At the end of the week we met up with Sam in Boston. She was hot, outgoing, well into Boston's party scene and looking for exactly what her craigslist post said. We all agreed that we liked each other and that's how our friendship started.

A lot has happened in the last few years, but Sam still remains one of my best friends. Earlier this year Sam had been considering a few jobs here and there. Her resume was a hot ticket, and she was flying around for interviews. About 3 weeks ago, she gets offered a fabulous new and challenging job in NYC... and tells me that she is outta Boston come June 1st.

A lot of my friends have been making major moves in the last year. I'm really happy for all of them, but I know I'm stuck in Boston for another 2 years.

It took me forever to find a group of girls I truly liked. Not to say I haven't loved all of my friends from my past, but I learned the most about myself with and from the girlz.

Last night over food and wine I officially said "see you later" to Sam. I WILL see her later, with trips to NYC and her visits to Boston... but I will miss not seeing her as often as I have over the last 3.5 years.