Interracial Dating

"To me, women are like Skittles. I'll eat all colors."- Dark Sarcasm

A woman asked Moxie for advice on internet dating. She was upset because anytime she wrote a post on craigslist seeking a white man, her post would get flagged and removed and men of other races would email her calling her a racist.

I've had this happen to me for the exact same reason. I prefer white men. I like pasty skin. I loooooove blond hair. It's my preference and I should be allowed to say so.

It's saves both me and the men reading my ad a lot of time. I don't have to sand down my pointer finger clicking the delete button, and he doesn't have to worry about courting a woman who is just not that into him.

It has dissapointed me in the past when I've wanted to respond to a craigslist ad and the author specifically requested a race that didn't include brown, but ultimately it is his loss... and actually it's better that I don't get hurt in the end.

I wish it were a perfect world where people are just people and racism doesn't exist, but preferences will always exist. I also prefer my men to have a tight ass, does that make me assist?

Well fine then... I'm an assist.

Regardless of the derriere, I do encourage all people to try dating outside their preferences, especially if you haven't been successful in dating. RedSox may be white, but that's about the only preference of mine that he actually has. I took a chance, and I couldn't be happier.

So why not take a chance on a person from a different race? Admit that you prefer white, but try not to be opposed to other colors. As Dark Sarcasm continued to say, "We're all black when the lights go out, baby!"