We're not surprised

I spoke to quite a few people about what happened with ex-Roomate, and everyone who had met her said the same thing "what happened doesn't surprise me."

I don't get it. What did I miss?

She and I became fast friends. We had a lot of fun together. I was absorbing a lot of the good from her. She helped me admit my feelings to OleMiss. She supported my decision to try therapy. She made the best bundt cake!

Dweeb, my cousin, had to spell it out for me. She is a yes-man. She does whatever it takes to make you like her. She claims to be very open and honest, but the reality is that she will never admit her true feelings. She will tell her therapist and everyone else, but not the person with whom she has a problem.

I fell for it. Rather, I did what I always do... only see the good.

I guess I shouldn't be surprised this happened either.