I've been reading quite a bit on the blog world about discussing each other's past with your significant other. I understand the importance of getting to know people. God knows I am a curious little monkey... and that unfortunately has caused a lot of trouble in the occasional relationship. As a result, I have a couple unacceptable topics for my relationships.
I don't want to hear about abuse that was done to you or that you caused. It turns me into a protective mother or a frightened kitten. Our relationship is doomed.
I don't want to know how many partners you've had. Mainly, I don't want to tell you how many I've had. I'm well beyond the number of distal appendages and I know your ego probably can't handle that.
I don't want to hear about ANY of your exes. As far as I'm concerned, I'm the first person you've dated. I apologize to ALL the men I've talked to about exes... truth is I did it because I a. wanted to make you jealous or b. wanted you to break up with me.
There is plenty more, I'm sure. At the moment this is luckily all I have had to deal with.
Tuesday, 25 September 2007
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