I asked

One thing I've learned from therapy and my experience is that communication needs to happen often. I didn't wait very long to ask RedSox about his profile on the website.

Every time I stay over his place, I am the first to one to go to sleep. He always lies with me for a few minutes while I fall asleep. Last night I was smirking quite a bit while we were lying in bed together and he noticed, asking what was on my mind.

So I said, "if you're going to meet women off of [website], could you please wait until I leave for LA at the end of the month."

I think he had the same reaction i did when he confronted me about my infidelities. Shock, fear, guilt. He promised to take down his profile. 

I decided to trust him, and ultimately enjoy the rest of our time together. Afterall... we're going to the Bahamas this weekend.