It's not my wedding, but I'm freakin pissed!

So my sister is having her wedding in Italy. Oooh, aaahh, yes it sounds great, but...

When she started planning the wedding, she and her fiance decided that they would pay for the wedding so that they could have the wedding they wanted.

They explicitly told my parents, 20 from our side.

Guess what just happened... my dad invited 200 people. Then sends an email, saying there must have been a misunderstanding because he thought our side could have 50 people.

My sister... called her financial advisor to try and pay for the extra people.

Anyone else feeling pissed right about now? I am...

I am furious and it's not even my wedding, but I'll tell you why I'm furious... because they're gonna pull this same crap with me and expect me to blow it off like no big deal.

Listen, I get that a wedding is supposed to be a celebration, but how is a celebration if I'm not getting the wedding I want?

I don't understand why my sister isn't standing up stronger for herself. It's bullsh!t.